We have just started these new focuses in the past week and I am already on target to achieve both of the goals. First, in general, fundamental erotic interest in spanking is almost always going to come from childhood or earlier. I think the answer is both yes and no. As for the tools of the trade, they can certainly add to your spanking experience. Is there a position you find more interesting. I spank my wife as part of our lovemaking foreplay.
I also believe that this is almost always going to be something that someone is either born with or dates from such an early point in childhood that it is almost impossible to determine its origin. Yes, No If Yes, describe. Depending what your wheel lands on, the possibilities are seemingly endless. You can even throw your own ideas into the deck. I spank my wife as part of our lovemaking foreplay.
Make sure that you both are able to fully enjoy sex without feeling a need to spank. With this act she knows that I still agree and that I am willing to work through my issues and make changes to be a better man for her. Obviously he ate quickly and we were on our way home. Perhaps it was just that naughty feeling, or maybe it was the endorphins released by the slight stings. Now, it is important to remember that correlation between two variables does not necessarily imply a cause and effect relationship. He knows he is loved and cherished and so he obeys. This may be the only study of it's kind ever attempted!
Alas she dismisses the idea of punishing me but then spends the nest few days giving me the cold shoulder. His skin was warm and I could feel the cane welts when I ran my hand over his cheeks. If you've already answered and want to answer these as well, copy and paste your entire original posting then add on your new answers. I got home about an hour before John did and I used the time to take a shower and shave my legs and pubic hair. It takes all the components that make us work as a couple and heightens them when he spanks me. The cane left red welts across the soft skin on the backs of this thighs. But I wanted to feel him inside me.